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More on BUD and BRETT types

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Someone asked me recently . . . .

"Can you have a "bud" and a "brett" type person within the same individual? Can you also become a positive person or are you just born a negative person?"

That's an excellent question. The answer is although the BUD and BRETT types work very differently, the effect that they leave on a person is the same. In short, BUD and BRETT are different sides of the SAME COIN, but, like I said, they work very differently on how they effect a person who falls for them. The BUD type is kind of what you see is what you get. The BRETT type is the "charmer" and thus passive aggressive. Both types give off the impression that they really "have it", more so than people who really do have it. Appearance is VERY important to BRETT types, where as on the surface BUD types don't really care. You're in BIG trouble if you give either type your heart or you get into that thing of caring too much. The sad part is that BUD and BRETT types are incapable of really loving anyone, although on the surface they seem like they could love better than anyone. That's the tricky part of this. They leave you hanging on thinking there's going to be something more down the road. They're also brilliant at making it seem like it's always YOU who has the problem rather than them. They're very skilled at that. They also give the impression that they "care" sometimes and you're dumb to fall for it. They're very good at making you think they do care or they could care, but in reality, they never will all that much, if really at all for too long. In short, the BUD and BRETT types need people to do for them. As long as you're of use to them you can have a part in their life. The minute you quit being "of use", they're done with you.

Yes, the world is made up of people generally born Positive or Negative, BUT PLEASE UNDERSTAND that In the way I'm meaning it and in this particular case, it doesn't necessarily mean that POS is better than NEG or visa versa. It's like a battery charge type of thing where POSITIVES are drawn to NEGATIVES and visa versa. Doesn't mean that POS is necessarily more positive or negative than a NEG anymore than it means that a NEG is more negative or positive than a POS. Does that make sense? It's a law of energy and attraction and it's INVISIBLE TO THE EYE.

The mistake people make with the POS and NEG thing is thinking that it means one is more positive thinking or negative thinking than the other. It doesn't mean that at all. It also doesn't mean that one is better than the other. Like I said, it's an ENERGY type thing you're born with, but it doesn't mean that one is better than the other. We all have free will and choice. That doesn't change.

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