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Decorus Angelus

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Date	Title	Hits	Rating
09/09/2009 12:59:27	Child Support GRRR!	2010	/ 0
09/06/2009 13:54:28	So Much To Say	1928	/ 0
09/06/2009 13:08:58	Poem	1935	/ 0
08/20/2009 12:24:08	What is Criticism? What is yelling? What is verbal abuse? In response to Parenting 101	3605	/ 0
08/18/2009 21:32:42	The "Real" Parenting 101	1854	/ 0
08/11/2009 17:19:35	Love...Relationships.. Just a Thought	1981	/ 0
08/04/2009 21:11:49	Love	2223	/ 0
07/27/2009 20:14:32	Acceptance	1849	/ 0
07/27/2009 19:48:12	Hurt	2234	/ 0
07/25/2009 21:05:02	Don't let me Go	1885	/ 0
07/25/2009 20:49:23	Sorry	1839	/ 0
07/21/2009 20:24:13	Backwards	2198	/ 0
07/21/2009 19:58:26	To You...	1950	/ 0
06/28/2009 21:36:16	Notice me..	1676	/ 3

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Article: eyes wide open
Comment: To You...
shiver once shiver twice your search in and of itself has uncovered such a find a rare diamond one of its kind hold it tight in your grasp treat it wih tender loving care open up your heart and find true love if you dare..

Article: to each his own..
Comment: Cliff appears to be an idiot..
cliff.."can't we all just get along?" criticizing other people for their opinions, beliefs, feelings and words is totally not what life, love much less this site is about...this is a place where ANYONE and EVERYONE can have a voice, where we can express ourselves freely without fear of judgement, criticism and nasty words..to each his own cliff..every person is different, we all write differently, we all think differently..and no one is wrong for how and what they think..not even you..God made us all different for a reason..and no one deserves to be treated the way you are treating them..do you seriously think that badgering poor heather, criticizing her for her opinions and her wordage and her way of writing is going to get you anywher? That it is going to buy you friends?, Bashing morgan for his beautful use of poetic license and his amazingly thought out opinions and methods to things isn't going to get you real far either..is this how you wish to be treated? how would you like it if every stupid word you uttered or every insane thought you entertained was criticized, put down, diminshed, belittled, and bashed to hell and back? is this how you would want to be treated? seriously man..step outside the box for just a minute and think about how you are treating others..and ask yourself if you would like it if someone treated you as horribly as you are treating these people you don't even know..

Article: thanks for the laugh...
Comment: Cliff appears to be an idiot..
cliff..i must say you have definately made yourself a name and left a lasting impression in my mind..as an abusive, rude, undereducated, totally self absorbed, egotistical moron..kudos to you man! " and the award for biggest ass of the year goes out to cliff carson"

Article: aim's a bit off...
Comment: Cliff appears to be an idiot..
that makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.... guess that's to be expected from the general vicinity from whence it came...have a blessed day!

Article: Congrats!
Comment: Sold Another Home Today
Congrats!

Article: cliff...
Comment: Cliff appears to be an idiot..
okay cliff..look i am decorus angelus..aka beautiful angel in latin..aka butterfly chic.. aka Angela..sir I pray for your soul as it is surely in the hands of the devil himself..i hope and pray that you seek redemption before judgement day or you will for sure spend your eternity in perpetual damnation for the inhumane way that you continue to treat other people..i feel so sorry for you cliff..you must be so lonely and miserable and it shows in the way that you continuously abuse other people with your words..to each his own cliff..no one sits here and criticizes you for your "mediocre" artwork..or for your point of view..yet you sit here day after day criticizing heather, me, morgan and who knows who else just for being who we are, who God above made us to be..what is so wrong with us> Who are you that should be so great and mighty to sit here and judge me..someone you don't even know..my poetry mediocre? that is your opinion and you are entitled to it, however if it is so mediocre then why is it published in 5 different literary works of art? why have i gotten award after award for my poetry if it is just mediocre..cliff it is so obvious that you are hurting inside and i am so sorry that something in your life has been so horrible and traumatic as to cause you to lash out at other people ..it is so sad that you get your boost in self esteem from hurting other people....it takes a real weak man to do what you continue to do..i will continue to pray for you..and btw..Have A Blessed Day!

Article: N/A
Comment: To You...
its just a poem... not to mention you don't even know me to begin with so how the hell can you judge what "my problem" is much less what I am looking for and from whom... or for that matter if i'm happy or not and how and what makes me happy.. i mean hell you can't even find happiness yourself..you find comfort in belittling others..lastly..you don't know who i wrote the poem about or what the hell it was about so just stop trying to act like you know everything about everything and everyone..you don't...get a life..a real one..

Article: N/A
Comment: Why?
It does always seem as thought nice people finish last in everything, that the minute you get your head above water someone or something comes along and shoves it right back under. People will never accept anyone for who and what they are no matter how good they are at least that's what i've found. Maybe somewhere out there someone/some people exist that are capable of accepting others for who they are but I feel they are few and far between myself. Change if you feel you need to change and only if YOU feel you need to change. Make sure you change for the right reasons..your reasons and no one else's. You are who you are and that is all you can be. Don't change for anyone else. Be yourself...

Article: Duh!
Comment: To You...
shut up cliff!..i'm really sick of your crap and honestly I really don't care anymore..you suck as a person anyway..bite my white irish ass..

Article: Good job!
Comment: That I LIKE the BEST
Not bad cliff..not bad at all..! way to go!

Article: N/A
Comment: Love...Relationships.. Just a Thought
The question herein though is this? Should one require of the other person to do solely what the one person desires? Should one demand of the other perfection, ambiguity with emotions, feelings, wants and desires? or is it better to flex and bend with each individuals needs, to meet in the middle or is it better to demand one's own way? Is it right to expect the other to not have feelings, or to not express them, to be a "puppet on a string" so to speak? Is it just required that someone not have emotion in a relationship, not express that emotion in any shape, form or fashion? Is life a straight road or does it have hills and valleys? If life is not straight as an arrow then why should one's own emotions be required to be a straight arrow? The world and life and the situations therein are in constant change, flex and motion..why is it not okay for an individual person and their emotions to be in that state as well? Is it not human nature or are these individuals that believe that human emotion should be flatlined just empty shells of a human soul?

Article: bumps in the road...
Comment: Love...Relationships.. Just a Thought
true there may have been bumps in the road but every road has its bumps and believe me moving on is a definate as you are so right there are ever so many wonderful, adoring, understanding, non-judgemental, open minded fish in the sea...i have found that always demanding ones own way and having unrealistic expectations of others generally leads to much disappointment and strife and generally leaves the one "expecting" too much lonely and searcing for a long time to come and generally leaves one feeling lost and always searching for something that can never be attained...your assertation of the situation is ever so true..it was not a good fit at all..kinda like trying to shove a size 7 shoe on a size 13 foot...I caught onto the "red flags" a while back but rather than acting upon them then I sat in wait, observing. It's a great thing I did to because I gained a lot from the situation in all actuality. I got experience in assertaining the presence of particular "red flags", how they affect relationships, how they effect me within the relationship, how to handle them, what to do about them, what not to do about them, and how to be assertive within the issue at hand. I also got to learn a lot about this person and in turn about people like him and how to handle myself in regards to them. I got an amazing opportunity to take care of myself and my needs and wants and honestly I wouldn't trade the experience for the world as it has served me well! I can grab this experience, take what I've learned from it and be that much more the wiser and better a person for it. After all, isn't that what life is all about? Living, Learning, Making Mistakes, and Moving On? You only get one chance to live! Do it right! Let's Go Fishin!

Article: N/A
Comment: Parenting 101
It's okay to let a child cry..its a human emotion. Stop expecting young children to act like "little soldiers"..quit telling little boys to "man up"! Yelling is abuse..especially to a child and just teaches them to yell.. I "can't" is acceptable..within certain parameters.. "ribbing to an extent is verbal abuse Letting them win sometimes is wonderful! Dating a single mom is tough..but it is extremely rewarding when the right combination occurs. Maybe you got reamed because it wasn't your place to criticize that child. After all he wasn't your child or was he?

Article: misunderstanding
Comment: Parenting 101
Interestingly enough, you won't find adults yelling at each other nearly as often as they yell at children. Walk through any Elementary school on the rough side of town and you'll be alarmed at what you hear. While the hallways may be creatively decorated with children's artwork, the yelling you hear through the doors paints a much uglier picture. Indeed, yelling at kids is something no one would prefer to do, although it often seems like the only logical thing to do. Why is it that adults will easily contort to yelling at children rather than logically or rationally working out the problem? It all typically boils down to a communication problem. Adults tend to think that by being angry, the child will respond to that and learn to behave. However, the anger only reveals a highly negative reaction to a conflict. What children really learn is that in order to solve a problem or deal with a conflict, they need to become emotional and angry. They also need to take out the aggression in a negative form. Not only can yelling at kids produce anger in the child, they are also brought down emotionally. They are told that their worth is little, and that they mean less to the adult than other problems. For example, we may feel comfortable screaming when someone pulls out in front of us, or perhaps when we are stuck in a red light. It is a safe time to vent and burn off some additional anger.

Article: N/A
Comment: Parenting 101
it's not about being thin skinned...i too have been a victim of abuse so believe me its not about "thin skin"

Article: Thanks Cliff!
Comment: More on BUD and BRETT types
I think I get ya now Cliff! Thanks! Thanks a Million!

Article: Hypocrite..Hedda Hopper
Comment: What is Criticism? What is yelling? What is verbal abuse? In response to Parenting 101
First and foremost...this was just a deeper explanation as to what criticism is, what yelling is and what verbal abuse is. It was not meant as a shot to anyone, or a means of lashing out at anyone, it was not meant to single anyone out, it. It is simply an opinion as anything else on this site is. It was an answer to someones question. Take it for what it's meant to be..an opinion..and we all know opinions are like assholes...everyone has one and most of them stink...so let it be~

Article: Can't We All Just Get Along?
Comment: Minus 10 Points
In stating one's opinion we are all guilty of belittling and down grading. We all have opinions that is a fact. We all have a voice that is a fact. We all desire to express our opinions and have our voice heard. That is a fact. We are ALL guilty of down grading and belittling others in voicing our opinions and using our words. We ALL need to just stop and quit pointing the finger at everyone else and look within ourselves at what we are doing. Change starts from within ourselves not from trying to change others.

Article: Getting along...
Comment: Minus 10 Points
Yes, we all put others down. I'm not gonna sit here and point fingers and give life to this when it's clearly not worth breathing life into. It's as simple as that. Anyone can sit and criticize another for anything under the sun. It takes strength of character to just turn the other cheek and walk away not to mention it's just a whole lot easier, brings much more inner peace and satisfaction and is far more worth the time to just tell oneself " okay..whatever.." acceptance of others is a wonderful and amazing thing. Some things in life just aren't worth the time we put into them. For me, arguing about petty things like wordage, points of view and who's the better person for this that or the other just isn't all that important to me. I'm on one individual's side and one only..mine. Thank you for your input , it is greatly appreciated!

Article: From the Author of the Poem...
Comment: Notice me..
Let me clear up any confusion one may have over the meaning of this work. This was written at a time in my life when I was being severly abused physically, emotionally and verbally by my ex husband. It was not about being the "center of attention" so to speak. It was about wanting the positive attention of love and respect, wanting and needing, much as anyone else wants and needs, to be cherished not used and abused, wanting to be seen as a beautiful being and not as a human punching bag, wanting him to notice me, notice the pain he was causing, notice the damage being done, notice the woman I was and not the woman he wanted me to be and wanted to make me be. It was about being appreciated for all that I did despite being treated as if I was an animal.

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